You've nailed the micro wedding plans. You've chosen the perfect boutique venue, the dreamy outfit, and the intimate guest list. Now there's just one tiny thing left: asking for gifts — or more specifically, asking for contributions to your honeymoon fund without making it weird.
Spoiler: Having guests contribute to your honeymoon doesn’t have to be awkward. With the right wording and vibe, you can invite your guests to be part of your next adventure and keep things feeling natural.
Ready to finesse it like the modern legends you are? Let's dive in.
Asking for honeymoon contributions is completely normal these days. Traditional registries are great, but many couples already have the towels and toasters they need. Instead, guests genuinely want to gift you experiences and memories.
Apps like Honeyfund and Zola make it effortless for guests to give — and exciting for you to receive. Think of it as helping your loved ones feel part of your first big adventure as a married couple.
The key to non-awkward honeymoon fund wording? Invite guests to contribute if they wish, but never make it feel like a requirement.
A few elegant phrasing ideas:
See? No pressure. All love.
The more personal you get, the more excited guests will be to participate. Share a few details about what their gift will help you experience!
Example: "We’re dreaming of kayaking through crystal-clear waters in Belize and sipping mojitos on the beach. Your gift will help make it unforgettable!"
Honeyfund allows you to customize each item or experience on your registry so that it feels meaningful rather than transactional.
After the wedding (and after you've returned from your adventure of a lifetime), don’t forget to show gratitude! Send a heartfelt thank-you card or even a fun postcard from your travels.
Bonus points if you:
Honeyfund’s tracking tools make it super easy to see who gifted what — a total game-changer for thank-you notes.
Presentation matters. Here’s where and how you can share your registry link without it feeling awkward:
Pro Tip: Honeyfund also offers QR codes — super easy to display at your wedding or bridal shower for guests who want to gift in-person.

If you’re stuck, here's a ready-to-go blurb you can pop onto your website or invite insert:
Your love, laughter, and presence mean the world to us. We’re honored just to celebrate together! If you’d like to contribute to our honeymoon adventures, we’ve set up a registry through Honeyfund. Thank you for helping us make memories that will last a lifetime!
Short, sweet, and 100% guilt-free.
If you're going the honeymoon fund route, using a trusted app like Honeyfund keeps the whole process simple and seamless. Here’s why it’s our go-to:
Check Honeyfund out for free here.
I recommend Zola only because I recommend them for all things wedding planning. If you want all of your wedding stuff (website, guest list tracker, etc.) in one place then Zola might be the better option.
Not exactly. Zola charges a fee to the person contributing to your honeymoon fund. So, while they don't technically take a cut of your honeymoon fund, the fee could impact how much someone is willing to contribute.
Check Zola for free here.
Not sure which one to pick? Registering doesn’t cost a dime so you can go explore both and decide which one has what you need!
At the end of the day, asking for honeymoon fund gifts isn’t about "getting stuff." It's about inviting your loved ones to be part of your next chapter. With thoughtful wording, a little personalization, and the right tools, you’ll keep things gracious, exciting, and totally on-brand for your stylish micro wedding.
Ready to set up your dream honeymoon fund? Create your Honeyfund registry here and start planning the best adventure yet!
P.S. Need ideas for what to put on your honeymoon fund registry? Stay tuned — we’ve got a list of dreamy experiences coming your way!